What if we were more than friends?

When to send it

For asking the question you've been wondering about, with a graceful way out.

What they'll see

Your message and 3 answers, all the same size. At the bottom, the line you picked in case they don't reply.

“I’d rather ask you than keep wondering. If it’s a no, nothing changes between us, promise.”

The message is already written. Tweak it if you like (280 characters max).

The possible answers

• I was thinking the same
• I’d like to give it a try
• I’d rather we stay friends

What if they don't reply?

When you send it, you pick the line that shows at the bottom of their card:

• You don't have to reply: if I don't hear back in 3 days, I'll let this invitation go, and that's okay.
• You don't have to reply: if I don't hear back in a week, I'll let this invitation go, and that's okay.
• Reply whenever, no rush.

After they answer

After “I’d rather we stay friends”, there's no follow-up.