It's been too long

When to send it

For checking in on someone you haven't seen in ages, without it sounding like a reproach.

What they'll see

Your message and 3 answers, all the same size. At the bottom, the line you picked in case they don't reply.

“No pressure, I just wanted to know how you're doing.”

The message is already written. Tweak it if you like (280 characters max).

The possible answers

• Same, tell me everything!
• Call me?
• Not a good time, but thanks

What if they don't reply?

When you send it, you pick the line that shows at the bottom of their card:

• You don't have to reply: if I don't hear back in 3 days, I'll let this invitation go, and that's okay.
• You don't have to reply: if I don't hear back in a week, I'll let this invitation go, and that's okay.
• Reply whenever, no rush.

After they answer

After “Not a good time, but thanks”, there's no follow-up.